The hardest part is not what you eat alone, it's what you eat with family. I do a sugar free dessert for my dinner with the in laws every week, and eat one chocolate, b/c it's a ritual we've had for a long time ( although I used to eat a lot more than one ). I do think that one chocolate a week is the reason I still have the odd craving, but I can control it, and it was a MAJOR deal in the family that I might stop doing it ( I supply the chocolates, from the US ), so I just rolled with it. What we eat at home, is far easier to control rigidly.